I had a different entry here previously but after reading a comment I realized that I shouldn't have written what I did. I'm not very good at saying what I'm thinking and I guess it just came out wrong. I never meant to hurt anybody or for anyone to get the wrong idea. I've been hearing some rumors lately and it really hurts.....i'm not sure how to deal with it. I don't have anyone I can really talk to....who's been through some of the same things as me. I feel like my happy ending was taken away from me and I'm finding it very difficult to trust anyone. I think I'm dealing with this in the wrong way but I have no clue how else to go about it.
Monday, September 06, 2004
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rumors are a fast spreading, and most of the time not very reliable. I work in a brick factory and every month or so other workers mention how they heard there is going to be a layoff. sure it may happen, but you can't let it worry you. We have plant meetings where the plant manager goes through the schedule for the year, and yes soemtimes it isn't good news, but we pull through most of the time. Getting key orders to keep us working.
as for your situation, I have never been faced with what you and john have been through. So i can not even begin to feel what you guys felt before, and during your marriage. But let me just say this. I think you two are very cool people. Maybe things were just rushed a little bit so that you both could have your "Fairy Tail" wedding.
I am no councilor, nor do i wish to be one. heck i can't even spell it correctly, i had to look it up! e or o haha. I find that most problems are a result of two people having opposing views. It is not generally one person who causes a problem. Its a combination. Sometimes we look at the gold lining and say, "Wow that is expensive, I want it!" then later you find that it was just gold plated and feel ripped off. Never taking the time to check things out before a major purchase.
I am sorry if i'm out of line. But i'd hate for you guys to lose a friendship you once had and maybe still have. You must have liked eachother at one point or another.
i didn't read that other post you're talkning about, so i have no idea what it was.. but it's your blog and you can post whatever you want on it... offend everybody equally.. it's their issue.
And hey chic... i suggest try talking to Susan Phillips
hey, thanks jimmy and susy. i know it's my blog and i should be able to write what i want but i did say something about my husband that i shouldn't have. i didn't do it to be mean. it just came out because i was frusterated. i guess whoever commented didn't understand that. i just wanted to make myself clear i guess.
I've seen some comments written that say "Its your blog you can write whatever you want" or "offend everybody equally". I really disagree with those types of comments.
I believe that internet blogs are a great way to express a persons point of view, feelings, thoughts and ideas. But blogs are just another form of communication and I think people still have a responsibility for the things that they put in them. Typing something that might be potentially offensive, hurtful, mean, or disrespectful can have the same impact on the person reading as if it came straight from the mouth of the author, especially if the comments written are about other people.
I can see how writing a blog is similiar to writing in a journal or diary. However, It's important to remember that you are writing publicly.
Ive noticed there was comment that said "Its your blog you can write anything you want". I strongly disagree with that statement.
You have to remember that blogging is just another form of communication. They are a great way to share ones feelings, thoughts, ideas, and opinions. This doesn't give a person free reign to write whatever they want. People are still responsible for what they write in their blogs, just as if they were saying it aloud. I know people don't want to write hurtful, mean, or disrespectful comments especially if those feelings, thoughts or opinions are about somebody else.
I guess what I am trying to say is be careful what you write because they aren't private letters or diaries. They are open to anyone to read.
Sorry that comment kinda went in twice. I thought it didn't go through last night cause it wasn't here a few minutes ago. Sorry
Hi hidden identity. Haven't you ever sat down and talked with someone, then they take something you said wrong? or maybe say something one time, then feel bad about it and say another thing to try and make things better? By spouting off, you might even drive someone more underground who is trying to figure out what she is feeling. or why things ended up the way they did in the first place. I would be pissed off if i had comments like yours. Yes I also would be upset if i stumbled accross someones blog and they be-littled me or something. But i've been through that personally before too, so it isn't much different. How would you work something out if you didn't know where to go? Would you just rather that person tuck it all in and eventually blow up inside? I find writing/jounaling allows me to say stuff i may not say aloud. then someone reads it and possibly gives me some light at the end of the tunnel. Or gives me something to think about. its a outlet for me.
i agree to disagree with you "anonymous"
blogs are my way of getting out what it is that i am feeling as well, and if what i have to say is offensive to you.. so be it. "Suck it up Princess"
taken from experience i know that i cannot bottle up what i am feeling.. so i will let it out one way or another... if i am angry at somebody i do not say there name but i will express my anger... and in most cases that person will know that i am writing about them.. so be it. i am only human, so maybe don't take things so personally.
ye sit may be true that if i found that somebody wrote about me on their blog and expressed their anger with me i might be upset... but i would also want to talk to them about what it is that is bothering them. but i would also understand that this is what that person feels.. i cannot change that.
just to let it be known, i am in no way trying to support slander
like anonymous said blogs tend to be like online journals.. so read them as online journals.. it's not a published book... so i shouldn't have to edit what i am writing to suit your blog laws
melody - i would love to have coffee with you some time, if you are comfortable with that.
I'm just curious anonymous, why is it that you do not sign your comments... it seems to me like you are failing to stand behind your argument or that you are only playing the devil's advocate
susy - you do know that it is possible to find out who the anonymous one is.... we think we can hide, but really we can't.......
13 comments and you've only been blogging a few days! wow.
how do you find out who annynomous is?
I think it's awesome that there is an Iranian woman commenting on your blog. You draw the world together Mel!
mel's been bloggin more than a few days... it'sjust you only found out about it...
but it's true that i do have my ways of finding out who anonymous is... but this isn't my blog so i have to go about it the long way... and i will find out.
if it were my blog i know who you are when you visit me, i know everything about you if you just visit my page and comment once... mwhahaha (i feel like a stalker :-) )
this has to be the most popular blog ever....weird... either that or most contriversial...shannon
I do have an idea who anonymous is.. and i do think i'm right... i've also told Melody who I think it is... but i just have to prove that it is who i suspect it to be... at least even a speck of proof will satisfy me...a nd i know how to do it.. i just have to get around to it before it's too late... and if it does become too late then oh well... i'll always think anonoymons is THAT person.
I'm starting to freak myself out a little .. starting to feel a lie obsessive compulsive... and leaning toward stalkerish
lol
oh well... if i start hanging outsid beroom widows then i kow it's time to seek help
mwa ha ha ha!!!
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